An ordinary Indian has a stereotype image of Pakistan created by reading daily newspapers. For Indian media, Pakistan is a favourite villain to rubbish for shadow boxing. Proverbially speaking, we seem to be giving a dog a bad name and hang him
But Indian electronic media provides a welcome relief through serials like Zindagi providing a pleasant picture of our neighbour. It reminds old timers, a popular radio serial Buddha ghar men hai kya. It had woven around a juicy forays of a lady having a whale of time behind the back of her father. Similarly, Bollywood has done a wonderful job by producing films like Gadar, Bajrangi Bhaijaan, Airlift. Pakistani audience also laps up Indian movies through modern technology despite an official ban.
Pakistan was a part of India forced by Muslim League because they feared that they would be downgraded to second grade citizenship by the Hindu majority. It ended in an unprecedented holocaust comparable to Jewish exodus from Germany after Hitler's cleansing operation. It is roughly estimated that over five millions lost lives on both sides put together. 4.4 million Hindus and 4.1 Muslims migrated from Pakistan and India respectively. But it didn't change the ground reality. Still around 20% Muslims opted to stay in India who enjoy equal constitutional rights and opportunities to grow. A couple of lacs of Hindus also live Sind region of Pakistan but mainly confined to the rural portion. Unlike India, they can't even think of becoming the president, ministers, top bureaucrats and army Generals.
My friend, philosopher and guide editor Ghanshyam Pankaj gifted me a trip to go Pakistan in late 1980s for about a week. Courtesy the then press secretary in the Pakistani high commission in Chankayapuri, New Delhi facilitated my visa across the table. We had more than cordial relationship with no holds barred on account of tense Indo-Pak relations. We exchanged family visits and had open discussions on the hostile relationship. I frequented Pak chancery quite often.
One day, a got a mysterious call, presumably from Indian intelligence commenting casually that my car was spotted outside Pak's high commission. What's going on? Being a journalist, I was not scared. But soon the caller requested me to share what I was gathering there formally and informally. He revealed that it was his job to collect what was happening around Pak High Commission. I was aware that it was a routine intelligence exercise especially outside Pakistani and Chinese missions. I advised him to read my weekly Sunday newspaper. Because, I immediately report, what I gather. That was the end of our conversation.
Soon I was flying to Pakistan by their international airlines. Majority of the travelers were Pakistani nationals returning after visiting Muslim shrines in India like Ajmer Sharif or their relatives. Incidentally marriage between Indian and Pakistani Muslims is not rare. Sadia Dehlvi, the noted journalist and a daughter of the Dehlvi family of Shama and Sushma magazines fame married a matured Muslim and created a buzz in the social life of Delhi. But he didn't migrate to India. She did visit him regularly. The airhostesses were cordial but stiff. Not half an inch of smile. My next-seat passenger was also a Pakistani. I tried to break ice with him. But he soon shifted to Kashmir which has become an obsession with Pakistanis. Their one-line argument is Kashmir is a Muslim-majority state. Therefore Pakistani has a a settled right on this disputed state. But that is another story.
I had met a Pakistani Latin Americanist in the JNU and we developed a camaraderie. When I mentioned that why not for a common forum for Indo-Pak Latin American exchange of ideas. Her smiling response was ' Here goes another Indian effort to dominate Pakistan" and she guffawed at her own joke.
In an hour's time, I was coming out of the Lahore airport. The custom checker saw my passport and grinned. Oh Hindustan. Janab, yahan kaise ( Sir, how come you have come here? I told him I am the guest of your government to understand Pakistan. He was shocked and didn't mince words. Ajeeb haqumat hai. Pahle aapko mehman banati hai. Phir hame amse jasoosi karvati hai. I could't help laughing at his confusion.
I had done my homework. So I took a cab for Falatte's Hotel . If you click at the Google, it will flash Faletti's Hotel hi tea. In ten minutes, I was checking in the hotel. They seemed to be used to hosting Indian guests. I was welcomed by a broad smile. After a low tea, I asked the manager, I want to visit a hotel. Perhaps, he had not been put this question before. He gave me a blank face but suggested that I go to market and look for a bearded oldest man. He might know. I did that. There were quite a few old and bearded men manning shops. One of them guided me and added that I should walk. It took me half an hour to reach one of the only two Hindu temples. It was a Durga temple. But locked. I was told by th a neighbor, that it opens only for half an hour between 6 and 6.30. It was 6.35. I looked at the idol. It was in an unkempt condition. The next picture that emerged in my mind was of the imposing Jama Masjid ion Delhi and of course Taj Mahal.
My next curiosity was about the Hindus in Pakistan. I checked from the similar elderly locals and even the hotel. Everybody feigned ignorance. They never faced such a situation. But after making half a dozen discreet enquires, I got one lead. I was told that there is one sweeper family belonging to a low caste. They are Hindus. Apart from that Hindus haven't figured in the demagogy of Lahore. A lightening thought crossed my mind that the similar situation was there in the adjoin Indian city of Amritsar. No one talks about Muslims in that city. In fact the largest exodus took place in these cities. Otherwise, hi Lahore had played a significant role in the history of Indian freedom struggle like Congress sessions, Lala Lajpat Rai, Bhagat Singh, DAV college and so on and so forth. But it was all history now.
Anyways, I planned to visit this sweeper family and landed his house next morning. He looked more Muslim than Hindu in his attire and mannerism. I spoke to him in Punjabi and asked him, how come he chose to stay in Lahore when other Hindus left for India. He gave a convincing answer. Sir, my work is useful for people irrespective of their religion. No Muslim was available to replace me. Hence, That is how I am here. He sounded comfortable.
My next destination was Islamabad and its twin city Rawalpindi. I took a 20-minute flight and landed in Pakistan's capital. Islamabad was the DIZ (Delhi Imperial Zone) of New Delhi which consists of government servants official quarters and ministerial bunglows. And Rawalpindi reminded me of Chandni Chowk. Crowded, heavy traffic, lanes of shops, narrow lanes leading to old houses.
My hotel was already booked. I visited Indian high commission. They were aware of my trip. They made me comfortable and asked, if I needed any help. I had known J.N.Dixit from South Block. Though a south Indian and married to a Punjabi, he spoke flawless Hindi. I complimented him on that. He didn't take it as a compliment and said, you north Indians don't pick up any of our languages.
In the evening, I was invited by a Indian diplomats over drinks to his official residence. We exchanged notes on how was it working in a hostile country. He said, "difficult but enjoyable at the same time. We are shadowed whenever we go out. There are intelligence people outside our house to keep a track on who was visiting us. In fact no Pakistani dares to visit an Indian diplomat's house"
"How about liquor? I believe it is banned in Pakistan.", I asked
Diplomats and army officers are exempted.
Islamabad was dull and dry like the Chandigarh of olden times. There was nothing much to do or visit anyone, except the officials, who won't talk to an Indian journalist. Hence I left for Karachi.
Karachi was like Bombay. Coastal city. More liberal a. It is the capital of Sind state. The political constituency of ZulfiKar and Benazir Bhutto. I passed by their traditional house. It looked more like a palace. Heavily guarded. I tried to fix an appointment, but in vain.
Sind has the largest congregation of Indian Muslims who crossed over at the time of partition. They are called muhajirs ( refugees). Many Hindus ( around two lacs) also decided to stay back here. But mainly in the rural belt. All landed peasants. Their Muslim neighbours had accepted them as a matter of fact. Even Karachi had many Hindu shopkeepers. I bought a camera and had a round of the Arabian sea which was extended up to Bombay and Goa.
Being a journalist, my visit wouldn't have completed without meeting some journalists. I was told about a women magazine. It was a culture shock. The female reporters sprawling all over. But all in salwar-kameez. The jeans hadn't reached their wardrobe. They were amused to receive a male Hindu Indian journalist. We cracked jokes about each other. One of them was more blunt than the others. Youy must be shocked to see so many Pakistani lady journalists. I kept quiet. Pakistan has a high press freedom. Hope you are aware of it., was their parting comment.
But I found out about the Press Club of Karachi and landed there in the evening. No liquor. A few reporters gossiping. They had many questions about Indian media and me of course. It was free, fair and frank discourse. I found them similar to Indian counterparts.
The last rendezvous was Muzaffarpur, the capital of POK ( Pakistan Occupied Kashmir). I was given an escort for security reasons. It was a long drive but it exposed me to the countryside.
I wanted to meet the President of POK Sardar Abdul Qayyum. My escort couldn't hide the fact that he was from intelligence. He tried to proble the real purpose of my visit. Obviously, he found my answers formal and politically correct. I, in then asked him about the status of POK. He was non-committal. But said they can't be trusted.
It was confirmed by the president Qayyum. He said, Kashmir has its own identity and culture. It is different from Indian or Pakistani culture. He tried to explained Kashmiriyat. I broached the issue of training our Kashmiris to disturb India. He said, he didn't invite anybody. They crossover and seek the help of Pakistani army. It is in their interest to help them. But he was more interested in freedom of Kashmir as an independent nation by joining the two parts. He was transparent and honest.
Back to Karachi and I was given a shock. I would have to Lahore, the airport of my arrival to go back to New Delhi. That was the rule between the two nations. I had the air ticket from Karachi to Delhi. But rules didn't permit me to use that. I was told that only an officer in visa office in Karachi. He turned out to be a muhajir from Lucknow. First he acted difficult but when I pleaded, he melted. He asked me give him an application that my father has suddenly fallen ill and I was required to rush back home. It was accepted and allowed to board the flight back to New Delhi.